Therefore, some information are worthy holding back from one's partner. It does not mean you are a bad person. Moreover, everyone has secrets they don't any person to hear or know of. Below are some of the things you never tell your partner in a relationship.
5.Important & Deep Family Secrets
Anything concerning your family history should be keep among family members. Certain information need not be told to your partner especially when such information or things may brand your family in a bad or embarrassing way. Additionally, it would be pointless telling one's partner about an abusive father or an irresponsible mother. Sharing information such detailed information with your partner in a relationship seems to give that person firepower to use against you in the near future. And this could be hurtful when such things happen.
4.Crush On Mutual Friends
Making your partner aware that you once had a crush on a mutual friend seem to make things problematic in that relationship. Because your partner will be consumed by insecurity which will eventually lead to trust issues in the relationship when you are with that crush. Men like the women do not like to think that a friend holds a special attraction or place in their partner's life. In these cases, they could do things to make the crush or mutual friend go away as they can no longer stand leaving the mutual friend with their partner alone.
3.Affairs at Work
How many people will go to work and come back to share news of sleeping his or her boss? Ladies especially are victims of such sexual advances in workplace. However, in relationship many couples only express their concerns about such sexual advances pertaining to their boss but no one actually talks about falling in to those advances. The consequences of revealing or confessing such advances to your partner could be very very severe on the relationship. Meaning the partner may lose trust in you or in some cases where the partner may be understandable, the cheating partner may be forced to resign in order to reassure the other partner it would not happen again.
2.Abortion
Most ladies play the innocence card when questioned whether they have had an abortion. Certainly, a lot of them do deny being in that kind of situation. However, when complications arise in the future and there's a
need to confide in a doctor such details pop out. Some ladies tend to find themselves in very nasty situation and often cases make bad decision that have a negative impact for their life. In most cases, these ladies do not have any other solutions but that only solution to their problem. The truth is no man or guy will want to settle down with a lady who has had multiple abortions. The guy may be doubtful about the ladies' chances of giving birth one day.
1.Sexually Irresponsible
In a situation where one see that he or she has a perfect future with his or her partner in that relationship, such people tend to be more careful about the kind of thing they share with their partners. Everyone certainly has a past. What if that past was bad? So, in the bid to save the relationship or a loved one, certain information has to be kept. For example, no woman will come out openly to let her fiancee know the number of men she had slept with or how reckless she was as a teenager. This applies to men as well, as no man will start narrating his tales of sexual escapades to his future bride.
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